Helping kids affected by separation prepare for the new school year
Helping kids affected by separation prepare for the new school year
Many children will be returning to school this year for the first time after their family has separated.
Federal Department of Human Services Director of Parent Support Toni Brown said gaining access to quality resources and support services early can make a big difference to how separated families interact over the long term and the effect this has on children.
“Latest Child Support statistics show there are currently around 1.2 million children whose parents are registered with Child Support. Over 74, 500 applications for child support were registered with Child Support last year, with the highest number of applications received early in the year just after the Christmas/ New Year period,” Ms Brown said.
“This year many parents will be dealing with the emotional and financial stress of separation as well as preparing their kids for the new school year. Parents and children may both feel anxious about returning to school after a family separation.
“It’s important try to put aside your differences and plan ahead for the coming year so your children experience as little disruption and adjust to the new situation as quickly as possible.
“Practical parenting arrangements can include organising school drop-off and pick-up times, extra-curricular activities, school holidays as well as those special days such as birthdays, Mothers’ Day and Fathers’ Day.
“Many children worry about what will happen to them when their parents split up, and it can be a big relief to them if the arrangements are clear and predictable.
“Child Support has a number of support and referral services available to assist separated families understand and manage the stress of separation. This includes links to websites such as Family Relationships Online which has practical information on parenting plans and related support and mediation services for parents.
“We also have a new website www.youth.csa.gov.au which has links to the latest publications, games and activities for teenagers and children under 12.
“It is very popular with both children and their parents. Since the launch of the youth website last year an average of 54 people a day have visited the site to play the game and download the activity book.
“Young people experience a range of emotions even if their parents are working well together, post-separation. It’s important for them to know they’re not alone and there are people they can talk to.
“I encourage parents to seek help early - talk to the school and the school counselor if necessary or call Kids Helpline on 1800 55 1800 – to help ensure you and your children are getting the support you need.
“To find out more about your child support options and support services for separated families in your area visit www.humanservices.gov.au or call 131 272.”
